Thank you everyone for your kind words. You cannot realize just how comforting they are at this sorrowful but glorious time. Not only is my dad peaceful but the appears to be in no pain at all.
Yesterday I sat by his bed and had a couple of beers with him. Of course, I drank his share while I reminisced about all the funny, sorrowful and joyful times we shared over the last 59 years. I also talked about my mom who I feel is with us, just waiting to escort my dad to heaven.
Today I got up early and prayed the rosary with him. Then I had a cup of strong coffee with him. Of course, I drank his share since he cannot swallow.
It is truly a miracle on how long a person can live without food or water. With my mom dying last April 16th at 92 and my dad dying within the next couple of days at 85, I really appreciate the value of having a strong constitution.
Over the last 4 years of taking care of my dad, he had so many near death experiences and trips to the emergency ward, the EMTs got a good laugh when I told them, “My dad is the bionic man (with so many parts replaced through emergency surgeries). If there was a nuclear explosion, the only survivors would be my dad and the cockroaches.”
I also need to mention some other special people who have done a lot to bring comfort to my dad and family.
The hospice nurses are true angels and have been on duty 24 hours a day. They are so filled with compassion, light and wisdom. They have participated in the deaths of so many people, it is truly a privilege to have such kind and empathetic individuals ministering tenderly to my dad.
After my dad is gone, I will reply to each person’s email in appreciation for you taking the time to be such a wonderful inspiration and encouragement to me.
Take care,
Ralph